Who wants to be known for something by somebody?
Is this desire to be known by somebody the basis of relationships? To be recognized as a person, as a child of God?
Many people are aware of “degrees of connections.”
It could be in a group of individuals related by trade, beliefs, interests, etc. Thus, connection in the music industry, sports, politics, news and reporting, or groups related to faith, family, etc.
When someone starts their career, it helps tremendously for someone in the industry to introduce them to someone who can help them get started. Connecting to someone who can connect you with someone else can open doors you would never be able to open on your own.
Often “degrees of connection” is referenced in a geographic area. The area could be your neighborhood, city, state, country, or the world.
So, who do you know, who knows someone, who knows someone in Louisville KY?
This example would represent three degrees of connection in a city.
People who live active lives meet more and more people with their involvement in sports, education, career, faith, fun, etc.
I met with one business leader who committed early in his career, to eat breakfast and lunch every workday with another person. His goal in these meetings was to build relationships with as many people as possible. Then to be the connecting link to somebody with everyone he knew.
The more we learn about one another, the more likely we are to appreciate them, even when we disagree with them.
Our personalities, beliefs, and habits are greatly influenced by past experiences, how we were raised, and who we associate with.
Most relationships are built around common interests. Most of my relationships have been built around educational programs, career connections, and Christian faith activities (Bible studies, Sunday services, and ministry opportunities).
The more time we spend with another person, the more significant the relationship tends to be. Thus, families eating at least one meal together each day have stronger foundations to live meaningful lives.
A relationship with the creator of the heavens, earth, and all of life is the most significant relationship to help us live with purpose, meaning, peace, and joy. How well do you know JESUS?
It has surprised me how seldom I have been personally invited to join a small group for Bible study, accountability, or friendship. I do not remember ever being invited to work for a company or organization.
Most people are focused on their personal goals and objectives, reaching out to others when they have a specific need or task they are not able to accomplish alone.
Our Western culture encourages us to live independent lives, do our own thing, be responsible for ourselves, ignoring how God created us to live in relationship with one another.
I am curious what you believe is the foundation for meaningful relationships. How dependent is the health of our relationships based on family, faith, society, human nature vs. the choices we make as individuals?
